Those gentlemens clubs?

I would love to hear honest answers from anyone. Do you believe that those gentlemens clubs with thier naked dancers would offer extras, Expecally the spearmint rhino in Brighton my partner seem to have spent alot of money in there.

No he dont know i know any of this.



Please honest answers, expecally if you have been there.



Thank you

Those gentlemens clubs?
Hi i am a dancer, in a gentlemans club, my club is strict, well the city i work in is strict so no we don't offer extras although i suppose some girls have probably met people after work if the price is right, i haven't but you do hear of it happenign and to be honest i have heard a lot about spearmint rhino that things like that do happen, it really depends on how much he has spent because it is pretty expensive, say 10-20 pounds to get in, the drinks are almost double the price of a normal club and for a private dance (in a private area where the girl gets naked ) is about 20 pounds on average, the laws in the uk do state that the girls are not allowed to touch the men and the men are not allowed to touch the girls, girls are not allowed to open their legs without knickers on etc, pretty strict , however some clubs turn a blind eye to it, particuarly if there are no cameras in the private dance booths, that way if licensing did come in they would have no proof this was going on

How do you know he has spent a lot of money there and if you don't mind my asking how much has he spent??has it been spent in the club or just withdrawn from a cash point, all this will tell, give me an e mail if you like, im happy to help if some bastard is sneaking about !!! ;)





***********************OK EVERYONE NOT ALL DANCERS ARE WHORES AND THEY DON'T ALL DO IT BECAUSE THEY ARE MAKING A BAD LIVES FOR THEMSELVES, I HAVE BEEN DOING THIS JOB FOR 3 YEARS, I HAVE NEVER ACCEPTED MONEY FOR ANYTHING OTHER THAN A DANCE AND I NEVER WOULD, IF I WANTED TO DO THAT I WOULD GO WORK IN A BROTHEL, I AM AT UNIVERSITY STUDYING ARCHITECTURE SO NOT ALL OF US HAVE BAD LIVES, IM MAKING SOMETHING OF MYSELF, I DO THIS JOB TO HELP WITH DAY TO DAY LIFE AND GIVE MY 2 BEAUTIFUL BOYS EVERYTHING THEY WILL EVER NEED ALL THE BITCHES THAT SAY WE DO EXTRAS ARE CLEARLY JEALOUS CAUSE THEY'RE OBVIOUSLY NOT GOOD ENOUGH TO DO IT THEMSELVES!!!!!************************
Reply:i know of a spearmint rhino in birmingham, and no sexual activity goes on inside the club itself. men can ask for a private dance though, and they go into another room with the girl, while the girl dances for them, normally taking their clothes off as they go along.the door to the room is left open, and their are body gaurds walking past, asking the girl if everything is alright, and to make sure that the men DO NOT grope them!the men also have to sit on their hands while they are sitting to make sure that they dont touch! i am a women, and NO i have never been to these places, but i know someone who HAS, so there you go. dont know if this helps or not?i personally would not like to think that my husband went to theses places, but thats just me!p.s. he probably spends a lot of money because they pay in, then put money into the girls bra tops or panties, and then buy expensive drinks, not to mentio paying for a private dance, if they want one!!its not the girls that are trashy, a lot do it just to earn extra money and are very decent people, its the MEN that need seeing to, they are the ones who are spending silly money, and if they are stupied enough to pay it, why shoul'dnt the girls be laughing all the way to the bank!!!
Reply:They are heavily staffed with bouncers so I doubt that anything extra goes on inside the club. But lap dances are expensive you know.
Reply:I have been suckered into going to such places twice and hated every second of it. They smell of disinfectant for one.



Most of the girls who dance at these places are students or young mothers who are trying to make ends meet, not prostitutes so you have nothing to worry about on that score. They do offer "Private Dances", which are not exactly tasteful, but touching is forbidden.
Reply:The extras are in every gentlemans club! The women often make extra cash from the customers by doing dirty things to the men! Just imagine your mans thing being in another womans bum! It's a hot chocolatey good time! He must be stressed lately! Cook him a good meal!
Reply:I haven't been to that particular one but I have been to 4 others and they tend not to, but it is quite easy to spend a lot of money in a strip club as the private dances usually cost between ￡15-￡30 each and the drinks are extremely expensive as well.
Reply:I've never been there, but I don't think you need Yahoo Answers to give you any insight.



If your partner has been spending a lot there does it really matter if they give extras or not? The point is - that's where his time, money and attention is spent.
Reply:i've heard that besides lapdances you can also get oral sex in most places like that.
Reply:It's up to the dancer to decide what she wants to do. But most establishments turn a blind eye when "extras" get offered. My boyfriend told me this. He only goes when his friends have bachelor parties, but some of the guys do participate in the extracurriculars. What can you do, selling sex is the oldest profession in the world!
Reply:I guess the drink and the dance are very expensive there, I wonder that how you can find out he spend a lot in doing what you suspect as I understand those are in cash deals.
Reply:It does happen but you have to go to the vip room and not every club has this. If you are hard up just call a escort or google some porn.
Reply:Typically they don't....I have been to some where a dancer may ask you if your interested in spending time with them outside of the club...and you know what that means...so I'd say in the club....not too often....
Reply:well i hate that he spends his money on that because i think its wrong that women have to show off their bodies for money...its just not right and most of the girls that do it is just whores and will take anything from anyone for money because they make a bad life for themselves...i think that you should try to get your Man stop going there because one i think its wrong and second he might get it in his head that he wants you to look just like them and your sex life will go down hill and i don't believe you would want that!

Well...Good Luck
Reply:Not a chance !
Reply:why not go along with some girlfriends and see what goes on in there, and ask for the "extras" package...???
Reply:no its look but dont touch
Reply:spearmint rhino rocks
Reply:Well I don't frequent those places but I know people that do and according to them if you have enough money yoiu can get pretty much anything you want.
Reply:I have never been to one (I am a female) but a dear friend of mine (Male) told me that ALL clubs offer "extras" on back rooms of the establishment, those "extra services" go from simple table dances to full blown intercourse! If i were you iw ould simply go or hire a man to find out what goes on at that club and put your mind at ease.
Reply:He's just a sucker, who wants to look at ti*s you can't touch